How to Get the Haircut You Want

5 May

Let’s be honest—most men have walked out of a barber shop at least once thinking, “Well… it’ll grow back.”

Whether it’s a miscommunication, a rushed job, or just not knowing what to ask for, getting the exact haircut you want isn’t always as simple as showing up and sitting down. But it can be.

Here’s your guide to walking into a barbershop and walking out feeling like a million bucks—no awkward hat days required.

Know What You Want (and How to Say It)

You don’t need to know barber lingo inside and out, but having the basics down goes a long way. If you're asking for a fade, know what kind—low, mid, or high? If you want it short on the sides, how short? Use clipper guard numbers if possible (e.g. “#2 on the sides, blended up”).

Better yet: bring a photo. Yes, it’s totally acceptable. A clear, well-lit photo of a haircut you like gives your barber a solid visual reference. Just make sure it matches your hair type (straight, wavy, curly, etc.).

Communicate Clearly with Your Barber

Once you're in the chair, be direct but chill. Let them know:

What kind of style you’re going for (professional, casual, edgy, etc.)
How often you get your hair cut (to help with maintenance suggestions)
Any problem areas you want to avoid (like cowlicks, scars, or thinning spots)

If you're unsure of terminology, just describe what you want in regular language. A good barber can translate: “I want it short on the sides but not skin-fade short, and leave a little texture on top I can mess up with product.”

Understand the Maintenance

Getting a great cut is only part of the equation. Ask your barber how to style it at home—what products to use, how often to trim, and what to do in the morning to make it look like it did when you left the shop.

A pro tip: if your cut relies on heavy styling, make sure it fits your actual lifestyle. If you're not into blow-drying and grooming every day, go for something lower-maintenance.

Trust the Process—But Speak Up

A good barber will check in with you as they work. If they ask, “Is this length okay?”—speak up honestly. Don’t wait until you’re staring in the mirror afterward wondering what went wrong.

If something feels off, it’s better to correct it early. Polite, specific feedback is always welcome. You're paying for a service—don’t be shy.

Find Your Barber and Stick with Them

When you find a barber who gets it right? Stay loyal. A consistent barber learns your preferences, your head shape, your hair growth patterns—and that kind of relationship can turn decent cuts into perfect ones.

Plus, tipping well and building rapport means they’ll likely go the extra mile for you. Win-win.

Bonus: Haircut Cheat Sheet

Sides: Ask for a clipper number (e.g. #1 = very short, #4 = longer)
Back: Tapered, faded, or blocked?
Top: Scissor-cut or clipper? Textured or clean?
Blend: "Fade" for gradual; “disconnect” for a more defined contrast
Finish: Line-up? Beard trim? Styling?

Final Thoughts

Getting the haircut you want doesn’t have to be rocket science—it’s all about preparation, clear communication, and a bit of confidence. Know the style, speak the language (or show a photo), and don’t be afraid to ask questions.

Because nothing beats the feeling of walking out of the barbershop knowing you look as sharp as you feel.

May 5, 2025 - Jasmeen Thapa

Jimmy Tran